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How To Write Thank You Notes That Won't Soon Be Forgotten

handwritten notes recognition relationships Oct 17, 2023
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I'm sure you've heard the importance of handwritten notes by now.  You may not be writing them (hint); but you know they are a big deal.  And while any handwritten note will make a big impression on the recipient, why not hone your style so that it blows people away?  Here is an example of a well written note from a senior leader to a junior leader that asked to meet with him to discuss some problem areas and ways to improve them.

John!

I was just thinking about how much I enjoyed our lunch yesterday.  THANK YOU for giving your valuable time to me to hang out and share your thoughts on how we can become a better leadership team.  Your years of experience in technology and your loyalty to our cause is a big deal to me.  You are a stud and I am proud to make this journey with you and call you my friend.  If I can ever do anything for you or your family, consider it done.  Your friend, Jack.

Things to notice and apply to your own thank you note style:

  1. Write it within 24 hours of whatever caused you to write the note.
  2. ACKNOWLEDGE their time and courage it took to take the CEO to lunch.
  3. RECOGNIZE what's important to them.  In this case, their years of experience and loyalty.
  4. GET PUNCHY with a purposely non-professional compliment that anyone would love to receive.  ("You are a stud and...")
  5. OFFER your help to them or their family.  Adding their family is a big deal and tells them they've earned your friendship beyond work.
  6. "Your friend, Jack"  Remember, Jack is the owner or the CEO or a senior leader.  But this says, our friendship is more noteworthy than my title.

It's not a formula; but try this out and practice it a dozen times and you'll be a pro at writing thank you notes that won't soon be forgotten.

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